Why do we argue about the same things? What can we do about it? (part 1)

Becoming a new parent can bring a lot of changes to your life and relationship, and it's not uncommon for couples to experience an increase in arguments or disagreements. There are a number of reasons for this, including increased stress and fatigue, changes in your roles and responsibilities, and differences in how you may want to raise your child. Additionally, the added emotional and financial pressures that come with a new baby can also contribute to relationship tension. However, it's important to remember that disagreements are a normal part of any relationship, and they don't necessarily mean that your relationship is in trouble. Additionally, having a baby can also bring couples closer together as they navigate the new challenges and joys of parenthood together. It's necessary to have open and honest communication, and to have realistic expectations. It's also important to find healthy ways to manage and release stress, like doing exercises, taking a break and having some "me" time, so you can come back to your relationship with a fresh perspective and be able to communicate more effectively. Remember, you and your partner are on the same team, and you're both committed to raising your child in the best way possible. When disagreements do arise, try to remember that you're both working towards the same goal, and try to approach the problem from a place of understanding and cooperation. Ultimately, it's important to find a way to manage the stress and work as a team. If you find that the arguments are becoming more frequent, persistent and intense, it may be useful to seek outside help such as a therapist or counselor to support you as a couple, and help you to find healthy ways to communicate and manage the stress together.