Asking your friends for advice can be a good idea if you're trying to navigate a fight with your partner, but it's important to be mindful of how you do so.
Here are a few things to keep in mind when seeking advice from friends:
1. Keep it balanced: It's natural to want to vent and share your side of the story, but try to avoid only sharing one perspective. Share your partner's perspective as well, to have a more balanced advice.
2. Be mindful of who you're asking: It's fine to talk to your friends about your relationship, but keep in mind that some people might not be the best sources of advice. They might be biased and not give an objective perspective
3. Be open-minded: Be open to different perspectives and different ways of thinking. Your friends may have had different experiences and might offer advice that is different from what you're expecting.
4. Consider the source: Your friends love you and want what's best for you, but they might not have the same level of understanding and experience as a therapist or counselor would.
5. Take what works: Not all advice will be right for you, so you should take what resonates and leave the rest.
6. It's also worth considering whether talking to your friends is really the best way to help you process your feelings and gain clarity on your situation. Sometimes it can be more beneficial to talk to a therapist or counselor, who can provide an objective and professional perspective.
Ultimately, whether or not you choose to ask your friends for advice, remember that it's important to take time for self-reflection and to think about what you want and need in your relationship.
